1. RUDE PEOPLE. this is the number one thing i can't stand in a person.this category can consist of strangers or ppl who you've know for years. its unattractive, disrespectful, selfish, conceited and downright ugly. i can't stand being around rude people it just makes me so angry inside..Rudeness covers so many things it probably even covers all the points below. This includes people who are ignorant, selfish, careless, conceited, stuckup, talks to you whenever they feel like it, people who judge, people who have something against you but is too chicken to say it to your face and resolve it, people who reply with one-word-replies on msn, people who go out of their way to be mean, or is just plain mean..etc.
2. Friends who don't try. I think everyone can relate...if you put so much time in a friendship and don't see anythign in return...it makes you rethink how much this person values it in the first place.
3. Unavailable/unreachable people to the extreme that you literally cannot squeeze a minute of talk with them.
4. Annoying people. haha ok that was mean. let me clarify myself, i didn't mean like annoying people like people who don't have social skills so it feels like a battle when you try to converse with them; but i meant like people who say the wrong things at the wrong time, or people who aren't responsible (ie. they never do the dishes or contribute to a project), people who just take and never give, or just people that don't really care about anyone else that everything they do is only to benefit themselves. I find those traits annoying.

but on the brighter side, this is What I Adore in a Person:

1. people who spend quality time with you - becuase they care enough about you to take time off their busy schedule to see what is going on in your life.
2. people who have a big heart. Do i have the right to say that im a good judge of heart? haha cuz i think i do. i think i can tell who has a good heart. i can see it through their actions and words. Heartless people includes people who can never forgive and forget, people who knows they're hurting someone through their actions/words yet doesn't care..etc
3. people who are selfless. how many people do things just to benefit their own good? for social status, popularity, or career purposes...? People who best exemplifies selflessness are mommy, daddys and ofcourse grandparents :)
4. people who care for others. Even if we don't know each other well, its always great to see your face or have a short talk. Even if we don't know each other well, you still seem to rememebr my name and a bit about me..ie. my school and program and care enough to ask me how my life is going. Even if we don't know each other well, you go out of your way to say HI :) Even if we don't know each other at all, its so nice to exchange a smile or nod, or to open a door for each other. Its nice to small talk even though we don't know each other. Its nice to see people put an effort to get to know you! If i have a problem, you genuinely put time in helping me out and solving my issues instead of leaving it to myself to fix it.
5. People who have alot of love going on. Friends/family who give you a constant reminder about how much they love you, miss you and appreciate you! :)